Don't Pussy Out On Me

"Power is an aphrodisiac."

-Winston Churchill

So, it feels like we're right back where we once started. OJ Simpson's in jail and Hilary Clinton is being punished over her health care beliefs. Who says the U.S. doesn't learn?

But you don't want to know what I think of all that. Do you? It's becoming the same old, these days. I don't think Americans really care about what is going on in the news unless it involves a celebrity or we're forced to listen. CNN is pretty much all OJ these days and last week was all about Britney's attempts to dance while drunk. Did you know that there is an area that used to be all ice but it's now melted for any ship to get through? Oops, I did it again. You learned something more important than Ashlee Simpson's involvement in a brawl.

It's sex, baby. You know you dream about it and think about at some point during the day. Don't deny it just because you are female. I've learned from the best of them that all girls think hot filthy things at some point when work or life has them bored. Even the most intelligent male can turn on a girl thanks to knowing the right words to use over text messaging after reading dirty porn sites. C'mon, those that work at home visit 'em at some point and it's been shown that over 60% were females looking.

But sex has changed for me. I was taught that to bed a girl meant being sweet and kind to her. It wasn't just the nuns in my first sex ed. class but movies where you see the hero, one that carries her up to the bedroom. He, then, proceeds to kiss the rescued maiden slowly all while disrobing her to the point that clothes are not torn in any way. Most likely, if the movie is on free TV, the camera would pan out right before penetration. If it's cable, you'll see her eyes wince as he does the deed.

Well, I don't know about you but I've lost 2 good pairs of undies, been scratched all along my back, had my ass smacked so hard that I thought I was in a torture chamber where I was being questioned over religious beliefs, seen my sneakers thrown all over the room, watched as she sucked my cock while peeing, grabbed into a bathroom and slammed up against the wall after minding my own business at a party if only to be kissed, and many more things that I'm not sure if you can handle because that all depends on your sexual tastes.

As many of you know, I have a nymphomaniac for a girlfriend. Her name is Sara and she is so filthy that I don't think even 5 guys can satisfy her sexual needs. A boy is going to have to let her play with his penis at all times. This means that Sara wants to watch him cum hard all while being able to handle her playing with it while driving. When she wants an orgasm, she really, really wants an orgasm. There are times I know I'm gonna bleed but, dammit, I want it to be on my terms.

This is what I learned during my last visit in Indiana. Sara was in the mood after watching a cable TV show on DVD. Never mind the fact that it was Showtime's Dexter, a serial killer the just so happens to be working for the FBI. I was forced down on the bed, stripped, stroked, and ridden. Serial killer TV shows just might bring out the tiger in her but they only make me docile until.............

I needed control. It was here that I was mad at Sara, a good thing, mind you. No longer would I be forced to lay there and take what she dished out. I (yes, moi) ordered Sara to bend over and get fucked doggy style and then from the side. Oh, it was heaven to sink my cock in her while this very submissive girl was more than happy to be ordered around. There was a lot of noise as my balls flew in different directions and the sweat came pouring down. What the hell happened to me!?!

I've known we all want different things in bed. In fact, I've got hunches on various people I've known over blogs when it comes to what they like. Who gets spanked? Who gives fantastic head? Who likes getting dressed up? For me, I used to be confused as to what Sara wanted because I always saw her way of submissiveness as seeing herself as nothing but a hole for me to stick my dick in. That's just not me because I saw sex as something fun to do but not the entire relationship. Various things happen and sometimes no one cums like they do in the movies.

I get it a little more now and have even found myself enjoying sex like a caveman. Yes, doggy style is incredibly moving at times. Since we guys are so obscenely visual, there is that sensation of seeing our cocks disappear inside pussies. They go in all veiny and long but come out sticky and shiny. But to women that enjoy being dominated, it's all about doing what the male wants in order to please him all while being pleased. It took me a while to realize that, seriously.

So, why don't they show this in movies? The closest is Mr. And Mrs. Smith, for me. That sex scene where they're slamming each other around is kind of............Sara and I. Well, we haven't broken any mirrors or furniture but give us time. Sara finds Maggie Gyllenhaal's Secretary to be her favorite movie on the S & M needs of a submissive. Beware when seeing this movie because it takes a certain type to handle it.

That's not to say I don't enjoy the usual type of sex. Oh, I do enjoy slipping my cock in slowly instead tearing her pussy apart. It's always fun to see her eyes as I stroke her in a manner that I can balance being on top. What girl doesn't enjoy being able to see her boyfriend/husband/fiancee in such pleasure from her pussy's wet walls? When I first started having sex, this was what I was taught. Be respectful to the pussy and it will pleasure you majorly.

Now, there is something nice and sporty about tearing a girl's pussy apart. The problem is balance when the bed tilts but that can be easily solved by pulling her hair. Yes, Sara becomes a young lioness mounted by the largest of male lions. I'll bend down to bite her shoulder or grab a mouthful and bite down hard all while pounding her hard. Geez, sex almost seems animalistic but hey! Damn, it is kind of fun to smack her ass and turn a girl over for another position while watching my slick wet cock disappear into her. Let's not count how many calories are burned in this because I've damn near sweated out a lot by now.

What I'm trying to say is that some of us have different sexual fantasies. While I'm sure there are some of you that think Sara and I have warped minds to be fucking this way, I can assure you that this is fun. What I've noticed is that sex has become a form of play where the ending result is me with sweat dripping down, Sara too tired to talk, and the room smelling of nothing but semen, pussy juices, and the essence of orgasm. It's all there and I may have enjoyed a hard swat on my ass to get the gig started.

But domination? It is fun to have someone order me around. That's, after all, how it started for me, being shown around the bed by a 29-year-old woman while I was barely 19. Sara was surprised to hear that this woman didn't hurt me in any way but was all sensual sex. There was no blood dripping down my back and the only 'wet spots' were pussy stains and the occasional semen drippings. Could it all be with how we first start having sex? I've no idea where Sara got these sexual fantasies to be thrown around the bed like that. No other girl I've bedded behaved like that.

I do know this. It is kind of fun to tear a girl's pussy apart. There were a few porn videos I watched long ago that had this image in my mind where the woman was being pounded hard in whatever position she was in. When I was growing up, I was taught that a girl's vagina was to be treated with such delicacy and sensuality. None of that jackhammer shit. Let me tell ya, Sara had over 10 orgasms and she was proud that her pussy was very red after what I did. Giving up control can make a girl even wetter, a good thing if she wants sex like that.

The whole point is just to be taken, thrown around, and enjoyed. Everyone's turned on by various things. I've never gotten it when it came to leather, wearing costumes, or watching women pee. Those things just didn't do it unless you wanted to see me laugh at the sight of a woman squatting over the sink to piss. What I find myself wanting is to lose myself in the moment and enjoy an orgasm where Sara is just as wiped out in the end as I am. You'd swear there is beauty when 2 people on their backs and drenched in sweat are looking at each other. Towels are a must.

So, think what you will. Am I right to think that there are a certain amount of women that just want to be dominated in bed? I know for a fact that there would be a lot of males that would be scared of a girl like Sara. It's 6 orgasms a session or you're just not worth it. He's gotta be in great shape and able to handle fingernails running down his back that leave marks, being able to eat pussy from the front and back like a champ, spank hard, and throw her around the bed or tie her up. Now do you see why I get so tired from a visit to Indiana? Happy twats all around.